Charlie update!

Oh my poor neglected blog...

I could give you a huge list of excuses (some of which are very merited) as to why I haven't blogged about Charlie since his 15 month birthday...but I'll spare you. I am forcing myself to sit down and do this now before something else comes up and I have another excuse. I was planning on doing quite a few blogs catching up on pictures and trips and such, but I went through all the pictures and wrote down a list of all I wanted to post and well...it is extremely daunting. Instead, I am going to upload all pictures to Facebook since it's uploader is much more user friendly. On blogger I can only do 3-5 pictures at a time and well I have about 100...so you do the math. I don't have the time, will, or patiences to do that tonight. I will get the pictures up on Facebook and I will do a quick 18...err almost 20 month Charlie update. But, the wet your appetite here is one of my favorite recent Charlie pics...

Oh, so much has changed since my last update. For one thing...he's walking...make that running now!! We were a little worried he might never do it, but promptly on his 17 month birthday he decided he would. At his 18 month check up he was 23 lbs 5 oz and 31 inches. He is in about the 10-25% for both. The kid just won't put on any weight! Might be the fact that all he eats are fruits and vegetables and is running around non-stop all day. He is just a little guy height and weight wise.

Like I said he is walking and running and climbing and anything else he can do! He is becoming a lot more verbal as well. I'm teaching him to use his words instead of grunting, pointing, raising his hand (his own made up sign language for yes or I want that), etc. He has recently learned to say "more" and "please". He can say a lot of other words too...the ones I can think of off the top of my head are, dog, Bella, Pongo, Mama, Dada, Pops, Nonnie, Minnie, duck, thank you, did you see??, ball, Yay!, Where does it go?, block, set go!, and teeth. I know there are more, but that's all I can think of right now. He's also learned to kiss and hug. He will pat on the back when someone hugs him. He is SO good at puzzles...like it's almost a little scary. We got him a new puzzle and I showed him 1 time how to do it and then he did it all by himself...even rotated and fliped pieces to put them in the right spot.

He is on a pretty great sleep schedule now. He gets up anywhere from 7-8 then takes a nap from 12:30-3ish, then goes to bed between 7:30-8. We have a great sleep time routine so he just lays right down and goes to sleep, no crying or fighting it at all.

He is still a pretty picky eater, but he is branching out some. He will eat chicken sometimes, but that is really the only meat he will eat. He does eat some of the toddler Gerber meals which have little pieces of ground beef in them and he doesn't seem to mind those, but if I give him plain ground beef...no way! He loves pizza, any and all vegetables, any and all fruit, cheese, salad(yeah weird healthy kid I know), and of course any sweets(except cake). He loves ice cream and chocolate.

He has been pretty healthy for the most part except this last week. He caught a virus which ended up being diagnosed as Hand, Foot, and Mouth (weird name, but it's b/c that's where the rash shows up). Here's the story: So we got home from Georgetown two Sunday's ago. He was totally fine until mid-morning Monday he started running a fever. It got pretty high at some points...anywhere from 101-103. We were pretty nervous so I called the dr. and they said just to keep doing tylenol/motrin and come in if it doesn't go down. Well Tuesday morning he woke up fever free, but I did notice a small rash on his left cheek. I called the dr. again and again they said, just watch him, but come in if he gets a fever again or acts "sick" or the rash gets worse. Well he was acting totally fine all day. That was also the day I watched Drew Lovelace (Charlie's friend, son of our best friends Aaron & Melissa)...more on that later. So Wednesday he woke up and the rash had spread...A LOT. It was all over his butt, legs, feet, hands arms, face, and ears. I went ahead and took him in to the dr. He hadn't been running anymore fever and had been acting totally normal...he just looked TERRIBLE. Initially, they couldn't diagnose it b/c the rash pattern did not fit any one particular thing. They tested for chicken pox and herpes, but both were negative. They sent me home saying it was some virus and it will just take time to clear up. Well, in the meantime...Drew started running a fever of 103 and woke up the next day with no other than a rash! His was much milder than Charlie's and Melissa's dr. diagnosed it right away as Hand, Foot, and Mouth. That was one of the options my dr. mentioned, but Charlie's was just way more severe a rash than usually happens with that. So in the end, it seems that was what it was. He still has some rash patches all over, but they are lightening up everyday. Crazy.

So that's the facts. I can't believe he will be 20 months old next month...something about it being 20 instead of a teen number makes him feel so big! He does new things everyday and I'm continually shocked by how much he understands and learns so quickly. When I was looking through pictures for this update I could not believe how young he looks just 3 months ago! He has changed so much. It really makes me miss having a little baby! He is such a sweet heart. There is nothing better in this world than hearing him yell "Mama!!" and give me a kiss and pat on the back. He is more precious than gold and I am unbelievably grateful to be his mother and get to spend every day with my sweet boy.

PS- Head over to Facebook later to check for new pictures!!

Disney World May 2011

Ok so I had really good intentions of sitting down and getting TOTALLY caught up with blog posts I need to do. I haven't updated since January so that includes 2 trips to Disney World (spoiled much?), 2 Charlie haircuts (also in DW) a trip to Atlanta, GA which included the Georgia Aquarium, Easter, and other various posts. Well...the ONE night I decide to do this...Trey doesn't bring his laptop home from work...which has all the pictures on it. Luckily...to wet your appetite, I happen to have a few pictures from the latest Disney trip still on the camera which I have uploaded to my laptop and will therefore be able to share...enjoy! Oh and stay tuned for said blog posts...

Ok, so we decided to take ONE MORE Disney trip. This is Charlie's 4th time to go...(ridiculous)...we've gone so many times because we bought annual passes back in May of last year when my whole family went and we knew we were going to go with the Bowen's in October for Charlie's birthday...so it made sense financially. We also have a time share so hotel is taken care of...so basically any trips we took through May 15, 2011 all we paid for was flight and food...and trust me...that is a Disney trip you just can't pass up. Plus...Charlie will turn 2 this year which means we have to start paying for his flight (gulp!) so I have a feeling our traveling days are slowing WAY down. This is the first Disney trip we've been on where Charlie could walk...it was...different. It was nice in the fact that he could walk around with us at the hotel and the parks sometimes and we didn't have to carry him every where. It WASN'T nice in the fact that he wanted to walk...everywhere...all the time. Which is just impossible for bus/logistic/safety reasons. So we had our fair share of temper tantrums...from us all :) It was also the first trip that he really seemed to react to things...he would smile at characters...dance and clap along to music...he even watch the whole show of Mickey's Philharmagic (a 3D glasses wearing show) which thoroughly amused the nice older lady sitting next to us. As Disney loving parents...let me tell you this just melted our hearts. Overall, it was definitely the most challenging Disney trip we've taken, but one of the most fun.

So, like I said, I don't have all the pictures, but here are the few I have. We waited in line one day to get his picture taken with the "main" characters. We've never done this with him so we weren't sure how he would react. He did pretty good. This is basically how it went with each character...I would walk him up to them (he would be smiling from ear to ear), try to let him go so he would stand with the character...he would promptly scowl, wriggle, and try to run away...I would come back and pose with him to get a decent picture, then move on to the next...so here is what we ended up with...

Mickey was first. We got better as we went along so we don't have any walking up pictures here, but Charlie was smiling so big. I was like, yes!, he is going to love it...but as you can see...not so much...

The typical Charlie scowl...
The pushing Mickey's hands away...
The, I'm out of here!
Pluto was next. He particularly loved his nose and whiskers...

BUT...when I stepped back...


Much better with Mommy there...
Minnie was next. Charlie loves Minnie...it's actually pretty funny b/c she is the only one whose name he says (Ninnie actually)...well sometimes he says Dond-dold and sometime he says Key! for Mickey...I think :). In the first few pics she is playing peek-a-boo..you can't really tell but he is smiling SO big.


Then...I stepped back...this is actually one of the better pictures we got of just him.
And he's out of there...

Now, I'm not sure what it was but he HATED Donald...I don't know if he was just over it at this point or what but there was NO smiling with Donald...

He actually started to cry here a little...
Still not sure about this guy...
The best we got...
Goofy was last. At this point I could tell Charlie was done...so I didn't even attempt a walk up and release...plus I think Goofy is too tall to bend down so far :)
Oh and you may notice that he has his hands in his mouth a lot. That's Charlie's sleepy/comfort habit. If he is tired or really upset he puts his hands in his mouth...he doesn't chew on them or suck on them or anything...just holds all his fingers in there...so you'll notice he was getting pretty tired at this point...


And finally here is our "traditional" trip picture in our engagement spot with a #4 for Charlie's 4th visit. It's not a great picture b/c we had to get a random stranger to take it and Charlie was really tired, but you get the idea :)

Charlie videos!!!!

Ok, after many not so subtle requests...behold...Charlie videos. Enjoy! The first few are from Sept/Oct of last year...the rest are more recent.

An oldie, but a goodie...this was the first video I took on my new phone so, sorry it is turned wrong...


More dancing...


Not his most graceful of moments...


Another one of his dance moves...


Charlie being Charlie :)


Charlie's version of running...he has pretty much done this since the day he was born...but now he squeals and says What and Huh at the same time :)



Sometimes I teach him stuff just because it's funny :)



Charlie playing with the dogs.


Charlie saying his favorite words...What and Uh huh.


Charlie stacking blocks...he can do up to about 4 tall...pretty impressive. He only gets 2 in this video.


Charlie "playing" with the dogs. :) I don't think anyone of them particularly enjoys this interaction.

I think we are officially done with baby food...Thank God!

Yes I realize my son is 15+ months old so obviously we should be done with baby food...well it's not so obvious with my picky eater!! For awhile I haven't been able to get him to eat ANY meat or vegetables that weren't baby food. Well, slowly but surely we have worked up to where he would eat fruits and veggies but still no meat. Well...for the past two days I have gotten him to eat non other than CHICKEN NUGGETS...TWICE! I think we are finally on the right path. So now he will eat corn, green beans, peas, carrots, edamame, pears, bananas, cheese, bread, and chicken nuggets!!! Thank the Lord! Gonna keep working on other meats, but he has also started refusing baby food all together anyways.

Only bad thing is I have a small stock pile of baby food, but it doesn't expire until like Oct 2012 so maybe my next kid will eat it LOL...if not, I can give it away to someone I'm sure.

Charlie man still isn't walking yet...we practice everyday, but his balance just isn't there yet. I've been looking to buy him some good hard soled tennis shoes but OMG kids shoes are expensive...like what the heck??? Seriously...how can a tiny pair of shoes cost so much. The cheapest I can find them in at Walmart for $10 (but I didn't like the colors) and Target for $15 (didn't have his size) but every other place I've looked they are $30-40...seriously?? NO WAY am I paying that much for a pair of shoes he is going to grow out of in a few months...that is against our Bowen family code of cheap...I mean frugalness...So, I'll keep looking at Walmart, Target and consignment stores.

I'm going to try and get all the videos off my phone and camera to post a few...stay tuned.

PS-fun story of the night...Charlie puked milk(and reminants of dinner) ALL OVER the carpet tonight...he drank a lot of milk and then just sat up and bleck...good times...good times.

The countdown to Disney has begun...again...

For those of you who know Trey and I, there is one thing for sure...we love Disney, in particular, Disney World.

Sometime we will meet people that know us through other people (friends of friends) and they will say "Oh you are the Disney people!" Haha.

Trey's love of Disney World is from a life time of memories going all the way back from when he was a very young child. Disney World was(and still is) their family vacation spot. They went a lot growing up and he has a lot of great family memories there.

My love of Disney World began on a non-assuming band trip there in late May of 1999. I had never been and honestly wasn't really looking forward to that trip. I was at a point in my life where I didn't have any good CLOSE friends and definitely didn't have any boys in my life. But that trip changed everything. My friend Jessica (she is now my dear, great friend, but at the time we were really just acquaintances) was dating one of my other friends Dawson. Long before, we had to sign up with who we were sitting with on the long drive to FL from TX, and since this was before J and D were dating, D had signed up to sit with his friend Trey Bowen. I was suppose to sit with J. Well, J asked me if I wouldn't mind switching seats with D so they could sit together. This means I would be sitting with Trey for a 24+ hour drive. I knew Trey through D, but never really talked to him alone before. Me being an agreeable friend I said ok and sat with Trey. That moment, as they say, was the beginning of a beautiful friendship :) That trip I found my husband and my best friend.

So, that alone would make Disney World a special place to us, but it doesn't end there...in September of 2004 Trey "surprised" me with a trip to Disney World, just the two of us. I say "surprised" because obviously we weren't married at the time so both sets of parents needed to be aware of this trip so I had heard discussions of it. Plus Trey Bowen is the WORST secret keeper in the world, at least to me anyways. I figured he was going to propose, but I just wasn't sure when or how. Trey told me later that he had big plans on how he was going to do it, but hurricane Frances came through and ruined everything. So, on September 6, 2004 they re-opened the parks after they had cleaned up after the storm. It was pouring rain on and off the whole morning. There was almost NO ONE in the park with us. I look back now and think, man I really should have enjoyed that because I didn't realize at the time how empty the parks really were, this was only my 2nd time being there. Anyways, we rode Space Mountain over and over until the rain stopped. We walked to a path just to the right of the castle and Trey pulled out a box, but not a ring box, a big blue box. He opened it up and there was a glass slipper. Engraved on it, it said "To my Cinderella, Keep on Believing" This was our special saying. We had been through a lot in the time from May 1999 to Sept. 2004. We had dated throughout high school mostly long distance and were currently at separate colleges, also long distance. He then pulled out the ring box and got on his knee. He said: "Dana I love you so much, will you marry me?" I think I said something about..."Oh look at that duck over there" (I'm not the best with awkward moments :) and then said "Oh, of course, yes!" That moment is so "us".

Since then we have been to Disney World an additional 10-12 times. I've been for our honeymoon, for at least once per each year of marriage (even if we couldn't afford it), I've been when I was 15 weeks pregnant, I've been privileged enough to share it with my family (Dickensons) who had never been, I've been numerous times with my in-laws getting to stay at all different resorts and do a lot of fun things, and I've been for my son's first birthday where he got his first haircut at the Magic Kingdom. It's amazing how many memories we have in this place. So, you could see why we are the "Disney people". It feels like home to us. No matter where we travel, we always say...it would be better to be in Disney World.

So, we are going back in a couple weeks...again. Yes, we are crazy. Yes, you might call us obsessed. But, it is just "our" place. And I can't WAIT to go back!!

Engagement trip. Beautiful skies after the hurricane left :)

One of the "married" trips.

Christmas at Disney with the Bowens.

The Bowen "kids"...before kids :)
Technically Charlie's first trip...15 weeks pregnant.

Charlie's actual first trip...which was also my family's (Dickenson) first trip.

Our customary photo at our engagement spot.

First flight.
Another reason we love this place. At one of the resturants the manager brought all of us hats and brought in characters to celebrate with us. We were celebrating: my parent's 30th anniversary, Amy/Shane's birthday, Kristin's graduation and everyone (except Trey, me, and Melaina's) first trip. It was awesome!!
Charlie's first haircut, on his 2nd trip.

Our customary photo at our engagement spot.

Obviously I don't have pictures of EVERY trip, but that is what I could find :)

PS - If you happen to be planning a trip, let me know, we have lots of info./spreadsheets, etc. to help planning :)

Charlie is 15 months old!

Alright so here we go. I haven't updated on Charlie since October and a lot has happened since then. He is now 15 months old. He has really become a little boy now instead of a baby.

We went to his check-up yesterday. His stats were:

22 lbs 12 oz (25%)

30 1/4 inches (25%)

So he is still a little man. He had to get two shots which were no fun, but he handled it pretty good. He was really nice to the doctor and let her do her whole exam with out squirming or crying (if only he were that calm when I try to cut his nails lol). So all looks good. We discussed all of his development milestones and he is pretty much on track like normal.

He isn't walking yet. He cruises around really good holding onto anything he can reach. He has recently started walking with us while we hold one hand up. He is still pretty wobbly, but he is getting better. I think he'll be walking pretty soon. Dr. said as long as he is walking by 18 months she isn't worried.

He talks A LOT, but no English :) He talks craziness(Charlie language) all day, but he has a few words: Mama, Dada, Ball, Dog, What and Huh? Pretty funny. I got him to say block once and occasionally he will say Bye bye or night night. Dr. said that was on par too as long as he seems to understand words, pointing to indicate wants, etc. I think at this point they are suppose to have 3-6 words so we're good. When he finally does figure it out, we might be in trouble :)

His schedule is pretty routine now. He wakes up about 7 am and then goes to nap at about 10:30am until noonish. Then he usually takes an afternoon nap from about 3-4. Sometimes he skips the afternoon nap, sometimes it's longer. I think he will probably be transitioning into one nap a day soon. He just always seems so tired by about 3 though so we will see.

He has almost all of his teeth now. I swear he has been in a constant stage of teething since he was 5 months old. All of them have broken through except one (well except his 2 year molars in the back haven't shown any signs yet, hopefully we have a few months before those come in). It is crazy how many teeth he has, but he really has handled it like a champ!

His table food eating is SLOWLY getting better. He is a very picky eater (honestly so am I) so for awhile he has only eaten certain table foods (banana, yogurt, toast, crackers, cheese). Lately he has added pears, peaches, edamame (I know crazy!) and peas. If only I could get him to eat a few more vegetables and some meat!!! I still give him one jar a day of pureed baby food meat and veggies and I am so ready to be done with that. I have to fight him to eat those, but I know he needs to protein. Maybe one day he will eat SOME meat. I've tried lunch meat, hot dogs, ground beef, pretty much any meat we eat, but nothing. Oh well, I'm sure one day he will just love it like he has done with the other stuff. He is always surprising me.

Since our last update we've gone to Disney World for Charlie's birthday, Thanksgiving, two separate Christmases, traveled to California, and Trey has been to Vegas & Australia for work. It has been a crazy few months! And it doesn't seem to be stopping. Trey is going back to CA for work and we are going back to Disney World (just for fun :) We had some time share points we needed to use and Trey and I hadn't been with just us (T, D, and Charlie) yet so we decided to make a short trip. This will be Charlie's 4th airplane ride and 3rd trip to Disney World!! He is such a great traveler, I am so lucky. We are really looking forward to this trip to get away just the three of us.

Well, honestly, this is all I have time for right now and I don't have any pictures on this computer to upload.....SO.....sorry this will have to do and if you want to see pictures check Facebook :)

I can't believe our baby boy is 15 months old now. At Trey and I's anniversary dinner we always discuss where we are and where we want to be etc. and the topic of baby #2 came up(we've decided to re-discuss that in a few months and see where we both stand, so no...not yet :). It seems like just yesterday we brought Charlie home. Life really is flying by. It makes me a little sad because there is so much joy and it keeps changing. But, we have so much to look forward to and we are really relishing each moment with our little family of three. We are so blessed.

Blog post...coming soon...

Oh my goodness. I am a terrible blogger.

The last two months have been a whirlwind. Trey has literally been all over the world for work. I haven't been home for more than a couple days at a time for the past month. And any free time I did have I spent on making two awesome Shutterfly photobooks for both sets of grandparents as a Christmas gift. That being said I've had no time or energy to update here.

But, it's a new year, a fresh start. Charlie is almost 15 months old!!! Our lives have changed so much, but we've really settled into a good rhythm.

So, my plan is to get caught up on housework, cleaning, etc. over the next week. Charlie has his 15 month check-up on Jan. 11th. After that, I PROMISE I will do a lengthy update including pictures and maybe a few videos. Stay tuned!

Until then, I leave you with this beautiful face to keep you company...